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This blog is about making life better after 40 through your own experiences and Feng Shui. 

There’s some great stuff for those younger too.

  • How These 7 Facts Make Your 40th Better

    Turning 40 can be the best. At that age, there are 7 advantages men and women will have, from greater intelligence to better love making, especially for women.  By 40, most of us have experienced various life challenges and successes, which contribute to a clearer understanding of overall life. Research has found there are 7…


  • How To Be Healthy After 40

    If you can form new habits of consistently restful sleep, an anti-inflammatory diet and regular exercise, you’ll transform your life after 40 into a new one. By the time you turn 40, it’s not uncommon to feel the repercussions of past decisions, especially if those choices included long hours at a desk job, skipped gym sessions, or…


  • Here Is Why Your Health Is So Important

    Your health matters most, especially after 40. The better you feel the more enjoyable your life is. Good health makes every age worth living. Let’s face it. Entering 40 and beyond is when we start to reap the consequences of lifestyle choices, long-term environmental factors, and, to some degree, genetics.  The cumulative effects of dietary habits…


  • How To Beat Heart Disease And More

    Heart Disease, Diabetes and High Blood Pressure are common for people over 40. Through some proper, committed lifestyle adjustments, you can feel reborn again.  Reference Disclaimer: Not Medical Advice Turning 40 is often seen as a significant milestone, a juncture that can be as rewarding as it is revealing.  I wrote about turning 40 in a…


  • Psychology Of Money, Proven Ways To Wealth

    The Psychology of Money emphasizes emotional comprehension of finances, largely by realizing what is important to you. For most, it’s controlling your own time. Recently, my fiancée recommended I read The Psychology of Money: Timeless Lessons On Wealth, Greed and Happiness, written by Morgan Housel. I’ve read a lot of financial and investment books over the years, but…


  • How to Retire With Little To No Money

    Retirement investments and savings are less about how much, and more about why. How you choose to live life, simple or luxurious, is the most important issue. Reference Disclaimer: Not Financial Advice According to USAFacts.org, nearly 50% of Americans have no retirement savings in 2022. In 2023, over 1 in 3 Americans, or about 36%,…


  • How To Always Predict And Know Your Future

    Good future predictions are careful estimates at best, and should be used more as a guide rather than an absolute certainty. Yet, according to the public record and as far back as most can remember, people have been trying to predict the future with precision. From ancient civilizations consulting oracles to modern scientists developing complex…


  • How To Make Life Easier During Hard Times

    Remembering history, awareness of the moment, choosing enjoyment and letting go, makes us stronger and living through the worst of times easier. The world appears to be engulfed in a maelstrom of chaos and uncertainty. The economy, unemployment, struggles to adapt to rapid technological advancements, global shifts in trade dynamics and political polarization can cast…


  • How Intermittent Fasting Makes You Better

    Intermittent fasting is not about what, but when and how long you eat. Proven to help with weight loss, overall health, increased energy and mental clarity.  What Is Intermittent Fasting? Intermittent fasting (IF) is a dietary practice that alternates between periods of fasting and eating.  Unlike diets that focus on what foods to eat or…


  • Working Is Better And Worse Than You Think

    No matter the age, working benefits your mind, purpose and finances. However, there may be a time to stop. Only you know why you work, and when not to. Some Questions To Think About Does the idea of working until the day you die frighten you? Or does it excite you? Do you wish you…


  • How To Make Life Better By Feeling Emotions

    Feelings are powerful mechanisms that can enhance experiences, personal growth, and bring success. However, being controlled by feelings can lead to ruin. Feelings Can Both Guide And Mislead Us Feelings and emotions color perception, guide our actions, and often define our interactions with the world around us. However, the very same emotions that bring us…


  • How To Heal Bad Memories And Live Happy Now

    Past trauma and bad memories greatly influence who you are and will become. Healing is possible and begins by choosing to be well, then learning to let go. Bad Memories Haunt And Hinder Us Bad memories are inevitable, as every person will experience moments of pain, regret, or trauma throughout their lives. These memories have…


  • How To Use The I Ching For Better Decisions

    Using the I Ching provides insights that greatly help with decision making. Just be careful not to rely on it too much. You are always in charge of your life. The I Ching Is About Dealing With Changes The I Ching, also known as the Book of Changes, is an ancient Chinese divination text and…


  • How To Make Good Decisions

    Good decisions come from diligent research, comprehensive understanding and commitment to making a choice. Indecision is the worst choice of all. What Is Making A Decision? Formally speaking, a decision is a cognitive process that involves making a choice or reaching a conclusion after careful consideration of various alternatives.  This happens with simple daily tasks…


  • Everything You Need To Know About Naps Now

    A daily 20 minute nap around the same time gives you renewed energy for hours, stimulates creativity, improves the mind and greatly reduces stress. Perpetual fatigue is a common problem in today’s world. According to a study by YouGov, the majority of Americans are tired most of the week (4 out of 7 days). The…


  • What You Need To Know To Sleep Better

    Quality sleep comes from a controlled environment, a healthy diet, regular exercise, nightly routine, and a personal intention to rest.  In another article, I wrote about how proper sleep not only makes your life more enjoyable but healthier as well. This article will go into further detail about sleep, providing you with some specific things…


  • This Is Why You Need Good Sleep Now

    Beyond physical benefits, proper sleep sharpens the mind, enhances creativity, helps manage emotions and can be a gateway to a higher purpose. As we navigate the journey of life, especially for those in our 40s and older, quality sleep becomes a priceless asset that contributes not only to physical well-being but also to mental clarity…


  • How To Love Your Home And Make More Money

    Your home is alive. How you treat it determines what you get back. Feng Shui keeps your home healthy and happy to help you. Solid Stuff Is Actually Empty Space Buildings, in their seemingly static and immovable presence, are often perceived as solid and inert structures. However, when considered from a scientific, quantum physics perspective,…


  • How To Better Your Life Using Belief

    Belief is the foundation of everything. Through feeling repetitious thoughts with consistent actions, belief can be used to change your life. Understanding The Importance Of Beliefs Beliefs are the cornerstone of human thought processes, shaping our perspectives, decisions, and actions. By understanding the nature of beliefs, we gain insights into how we make sense of…


  • Part 5, This Is How My Feng Shui Got Better

    Experience taught me that Feng Shui works, but you don’t need to follow any school or practice. Declutter, command seating, be organized and you’ll benefit. This is the 5th and final publication of a 5-part series related to Bagua Maps. If you would like to jump to another article in the series, the links are below.…


  • Part 4, Feng Shui To Be Successful Now

    Declutter, sit like a king or queen, lots of fresh air and be organized. That is all anyone needs from Feng Shui to succeed. This is the 4th of a 5-part series related to Bagua Maps. If you would like to jump to another article in the series, the links are below. Part 3 Recap In…


  • Part 3, Here Is How To Activate Bagua Maps

    To benefit from Bagua Maps, each life-aspect area needs to be activated. However, not every Feng Shui school does it the same way. This is the 3rd of a 5-part series related to Bagua Maps. If you would like to jump to another article in the series, the links are below. Part 2 Recap The last…


  • Part 2, How To Create Bagua Maps Now

    Traditional, Black Hat and New Age Feng Shui each calculate and use Bagua Maps differently. Some of those differences contradict one another. This is the 2nd publication of a 5-part series related to Bagua Maps. If you would like to jump to another article in the series, the links are below. Part 1 Recap The previous…


  • Part 1, How To Use Bagua Maps The Best Way

    Bagua Maps in Feng Shui are created from complex calculations to static, simple map overlays. Each Bagua Map guides the implementation of Feng Shui. This is the 1st of a 5-part series centered around Bagua Maps.  If you would like to jump to another article in the series, the links are below Bagua Maps are…


  • This Is How To Enjoy Life Now

    Enjoyment of life is tied to living in the moment without attachment. You can have everything without holding onto anything, living your best self. The purpose of life is one of the most profound and enduring questions that humanity has grappled with throughout its existence. Philosophers, theologians, scientists, and thinkers from various disciplines have all…


  • How To Be Healthy For Love

    Physical fitness deserves priority attention. If you do, your life becomes easier, more enjoyable and just better. This includes finding and having love. PLEASE SEE DISCLAIMER Nothing in this article is medical advice. Please see a licensed physician concerning any health-related decisions. In the article, How To Find Love Using Feng Shui Correctly, I wrote…


  • How Love And Money Go Together

    Financial stability is important to finding and reinforcing love in a world that operates through money. Good financial health benefits you and your partner. PLEASE SEE DISCLAIMER Nothing in this article is financial advice. Visit with a licensed financial advisor concerning any money-related decisions. In a previous article entitled, How To Find Love Using Feng…


  • How To Love Yourself, Even When You Can’t

    Proper self-love is the foundation for loving others and creating a better you. Research has proven it is a powerful tool for improving your life. PLEASE SEE DISCLAIMER Nothing in this article is medical or legal advice. Visit with a licensed health professional for any persistent health or psychological issues. In another article entitled, How…


  • How To Find Love Using Feng Shui Correctly

    To find love, become the best version of yourself. Feng Shui creates environments that help you become better. Then, with intention, love happens easier. First, Love Yourself Entirely, Including Your “Flaws” Do you love yourself? You should. You should love yourself with all your “flaws” and “imperfections”. If you can’t love the parts of yourself…


  • Here Is How To Use Intention To Get Results

    Intentions are what make desires a reality. Feng Shui (like decluttering) adds efficiency to intention which makes manifesting goals easier. It’s human nature (as we currently understand it) to desire things and experiences. Those desires drive intention.  Many have argued that this inclination originated from our basic survival instincts. Early humans needed food, shelter, and resources…


  • Here Is How To Always Be Happy

    Don’t go looking for happiness. Money, stuff and relationships can add to it, but it’s not the source. Being at peace is. You get there by letting go. Everyone wants to be happy. It’s an elusive state of being that goes beyond cultural, geographical, and temporal boundaries. From the moment we enter this world, we…


  • Wrong Feng Shui And How To Make It Right

    Feng Shui creates a helpful, supportive and healthy environment, but you choose what actions to take to reach your goals. Most Are Afraid Of Doing Something Wrong Fear of doing something wrong is a deeply ingrained human emotion that stems from a combination of psychological, social, and arguably evolutionary factors.  As social creatures, we rely…


  • You Need To Know About Feng Shui Energy

    Feng Shui energy exists the same way intention and goal setting does through psychology. Altering your environment helps you achieve what you want. Feng Shui involves arranging space, such as your home or office, in a way that benefits you. This is rooted in the belief that it can influence the quality of energy that…


  • How To Get Fast, Proven Results Using Feng Shui

    Feng Shui speeds up the manifestation of your desires by harmonizing the environment with intention. Decluttering will produce the fastest results at first. When striving to reach a goal, it’s very common for the mind to explore how long it will take. For many, the period from when the journey begins to where it is…


  • How To Benefit From The Colors Of Feng Shui

    Feng Shui arranges your environment and color enhances it. Psychology has proven that both greatly affect your goals and results. Feng Shui is an art that focuses on arranging our surroundings to create harmony and balance in our lives. One essential aspect of Feng Shui is the use of colors to influence energy flow, mood,…


  • How To Feng Shui Your Living Room Right

    Feng Shui transforms living rooms into harmonious spaces by optimizing layout and energy flow, promoting relaxation, balance, and happiness. The living room is often considered the heart of the home. By incorporating Feng Shui principles, you can create a space that not only looks aesthetically pleasing but also promotes positive energy flow and emotional well-being. …


  • How To Feng Shui Your Bedroom The Right Way

    Sleep rules mental, physical and emotional health. Applying Feng Shui to your bedroom improves your sleep. The better you feel, the better you live.  Feng Shui, an ancient Chinese practice with modern scientific backing, involves the strategic arrangement of your environment to enhance well-being and energy flow. While its traditional principles were established on philosophical…


  • How To Use Feng Shui Mirrors To Get Results

    Mirrors in Feng Shui magnify desired results. However, improper placement can make things worse. Understanding how to position mirrors is crucial. Mirrors In Feng Shui Enhance Everything Feng Shui is the art of creating harmony between your environment and yourself through the calculated position of furniture, thoughtful color usage, and complimentary objects. Mirrors are often…


  • Feng Shui Bracelets And How To Use It Right

    Feng Shui Bracelets (Pixiu) do increase your financial wealth, improve your health, and better your relationships. However, Pixiu isn’t why. You’re the reason. Feng Shui Is About Arranging Your Surroundings To Benefit You Feng Shui, which translates to “wind-water,” was originally an ancient Chinese practice. The art involves arranging the environment to achieve balance and…


  • How Feng Shui Can Make Your Life Great

    Feng Shui is about achieving harmony in your home. Mysticism aside, there is scientific evidence the art positively affects behavior and does improve your life.


  • Feng Shui Helps You Get Better Results

    You can accomplish your desires faster through the application of Feng Shui. It creates favorable circumstances toward achieving greater and faster results. The human desire for success is a phenomenon that has fueled the progress and ambitions of individuals throughout history. From the earliest civilizations to the modern world, people have been driven by an…


  • Here Is How To Get Rich After 40

    To get rich means doing things differently. You’ll develop growth and opportunity thinking, cut expenses, invest heavily, and possibly create new income. Reference Disclaimer: Not Financial Advice It Starts With Knowing What You Want And Why, Because That Makes It Real Understanding what you want, and why, is essential in making decisions. Let’s say, someone…


  • Here Is How To Get Rich Through Your Job

    You can get rich through a normal job by getting promoted, living with low expenses, and investing in compounding assets for as long as possible. Reference Disclaimer: Not Financial Advice The Meaning Of Rich Matters For many, being rich implies having an abundance of resources and assets. It means having the financial freedom to pursue…


  • How To Become Rich The Simple Way

    Becoming rich is simple. (1) Spend less than you earn, (2) Invest more than you save, (3) Find ways to earn more, and (4) Do it for as long as possible. Reference Disclaimer: Not Financial Advice You Determine What It Means To Be Rich According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, to be “rich” implies having more…


  • How To Find The Best Feng Shui School

    Based on scientific studies, numerous reports, comparisons, and contrasts, the findings demonstrate that there is no “best” Feng Shui school, only personal preference. Even then, the school of choice is more related to style than guaranteed results. The Three Schools of Feng Shui Are Traditional, Black Hat, and New Age / Pyramid Feng Shui focuses…


  • Life After 40 Can Be The Best Right Now

    After 40, pretending you’re 25 is a recipe for disaster. However, living with the soul of youth and the wisdom of age is genius. If Your Mind Is Still In Your Mid-20s, Then, Yes, Your Life Is Pretty Much Over After 40 When we were in our 20s, even early 30s, our bodies were generally…


  • The Most Important Feng Shui Is The Bedroom

    The bedroom is for sleep, resting and making love. It’s a place that should rejuvenate you. Through Feng Shui, it’s the most powerful room in your home. We Spend Most Of Our Time In The Bedroom, Which Alone Makes The Room Deeply Important According to the Handbook of Clinical Neurology, we consume approximately 1/3rd of…


  • How To Use The 5 Feng Shui Elements Better

    Like with color and furniture placement, evidence supports the use of 5 Feng Shui elemental factors as a foundational guide that improves your life. The 5 Elements of Feng Shui Provide Direction For Furniture Placement And Color Application Feng Shui is a philosophical system that helps harmoniously arrange your environment through the arrangement and orientation…


  • Color And Feng Shui Make Your Life Better

    If you understand how to use colors, (red increases stamina, blue for calmness, etc), they become tools that accelerate your goals and happiness. Your Life Is Affected By Your Environment As of the date of this article, I’ve lived past my mid-40s. Through the decades, I’ve experienced many different kinds of settings, from serene and…


  • Clutter Hurts, Less Things Make You Better

    Clutter (too much stuff laying around and taking up space), has been proven to increase anxiety, anger, depression, and hopelessness. Studies have found that cortisol (the chemical that is closely linked to stress) spikes when living in a messy environment. Reducing the number of things we have laid out dramatically increases happiness.